After mass rape by the Islamic State, Yazidi women still struggle to break the silence

Publication: Al-Monitor

DAHUK, Iraq — The first man Aniya was forced to marry was an Islamic State militant called Abu Safouan. She was 41 and he was 22, but still he bought her and her 3-year-old daughter at a slave market in Raqqa. After he had raped and abused Aniya for 20 days, he told her he was fed up with her and sold her to a 27-year-old man who called himself Abu Ali Sham.

“He used to rape me when my daughter was outside the room. She often screamed and cried, because she knew something was wrong, Continue reading After mass rape by the Islamic State, Yazidi women still struggle to break the silence

Kurdish fighters struggle to pay bills

Publication: Al-Monitor

ERBIL, Iraq — When Hemin Zangana was sent to the front line in August 2014, he and his fellow peshmerga fighters were determined to recapture the Mosul Dam from the Islamic State. They told each other they would rather die during this important mission than accept the fact that IS was in full control after Kurdish forces partially retreated from the area. For several nights, Zangana wasn’t able to sleep properly.

“The peshmerga were weak, too weak. It was the hardest battle I had ever experienced. Yet we were convinced we had what it took to defeat IS,” he told Al-Monitor. Continue reading Kurdish fighters struggle to pay bills

Iraqi children traumatized by IS violence

PHOTO: Brenda Stoter
PHOTO: Brenda Stoter

Publication: Al-Monitor

ERBIL, Iraq — Mohammed was 5 years old when August 16, 2015his little brother was shot dead before his eyes. This happened in June 2014 when Islamic State (IS) militants stormed the city of Mosul and took over large parts of northern Iraq.

“IS terrorists shot my child because I was a soldier in the Iraqi army,” Mohammed’s father, a skinny man with deep lines in his face Continue reading Iraqi children traumatized by IS violence

De leeuwen van morgen; Nederlandse kinderen in het kalifaat

Publicatie: De Groene Amsterdammer

Ruim veertig Nederlandse vrouwen zijn het afgelopen jaar naar Syrië en Irak vertrokken om zich in dienst te stellen van kalifaat. Sommigen namen hun kinderen mee. Want wat moeten die in een land vol ongelovigen? 

De woonkamer ziet eruit alsof er een tornado doorheen is geraasd. Het lichtpaarse behang is grotendeels van de muren afgescheurd, overal liggen papieren en op de doorzichtige salontafel staat een verdwaalde fles ketchup. De bank mist op sommige plekken bekleding en schuim. Niets verraadt dat hier een gezin met kinderen woont, behalve wat rondslingerend speelgoed en een kindertekening op de deur. Die is gemaakt door de vierjarige Noureddine, een jongetje dat niet kan praten, alleen schreeuwen en lachen, en dat door middel van plaatjes duidelijk maakt wat hij wil. Continue reading De leeuwen van morgen; Nederlandse kinderen in het kalifaat

Radicalized Western mothers lead children into Islamic State

Publication: Al-Monitor

AMSTERDAM — For Aysha and Luca Opdam’s father, it is still hard to accept that his children, born and raised in the Netherlands, are now living in Syria. In a letter, he describes how his ex-wife radicalized after she devoted her life to Islam around six years ago. After it was made public that Aysha, 7, and Luca, 8, were taken by their mother to join the Islamic State (IS), the letter was published by a local newspaper.

“If my kids — if I ever get them again — become Muslims that would be fine by me. But only at an age when they are able to make their own choices with full awareness,” he wrote on March 22. Continue reading Radicalized Western mothers lead children into Islamic State

Grandmothers bear the brunt of Syrian orphan crisis

Publication: Al-Monitor

ZAATARI, Jordan — It has been years since Da’ed and her family fled Syria, but when her granddaughter asks where her mother and father are, the 60-year-old woman cannot find the right words to explain. In fact, Najoua, 4, still doesn’t know that her parents were killed by regime airstrikes in Daraa province two years ago. In total, 140 people were killed that day, including Najoua’s father and her pregnant mother.

For a brief second, Da’ed pauses, looks at her granddaughter and puts her hand on her chest. “My heart aches when I think of all the people I know who have died,” Continue reading Grandmothers bear the brunt of Syrian orphan crisis

Iraqi Christians find safe haven in Jordan’s churches

Publication; Al-Monitor

AMMAN, Jordan — His teenage daughter being married to an Islamic State (IS) fighter, his wife being forced to convert to Islam and his sons being trained by militants in the Islamic State’s children’s training camps.

“We got a call that ‘Daesh’ (the Arabic acronym for IS) was coming. In just a few hours, all Christians in our village decided to flee. People even forgot to take their passports. It was a huge mess,’’ Nadjm, 43, recalls. He and his family members stayed in the Kurdish Regional Government (KRG) region in northern Iraq for a few months. Continue reading Iraqi Christians find safe haven in Jordan’s churches

Financial burden, risk of violence pressure Syrian girls to marry

Publication: Al-Monitor

MAFRAQ, Jordan — Her first husband was a 46-year-old man from Saudi Arabia who already had two wives. Once every few months, he traveled to Jordan for business, and during these visits he would talk to Fatima’s aunt about marrying another woman. Her aunt told him she had a suitable candidate in mind: her young niece. Initially, the girl’s father didn’t want his daughter to get married at such a young age, but when he found out that the Saudi man was wealthy and religious, he changed his mind.

It wasn’t really up to the bride-to-be to decide whether she wanted to marry this man. As the eldest daughter still living with her parents, she felt like a burden to them. The family had fled Homs to Jordan in 2013 because of the Syrian war, Continue reading Financial burden, risk of violence pressure Syrian girls to marry

‘Christenen zijn nergens meer veilig’

Publicatie: De Tijd

AMMAN- Door de opmars van Islamitische Staat vluchten christenen massaal uit Irak. In de Jordaanse hoofdstad Amman worden ze in kerken opgevangen, maar ook daar willen ze weg. ‘Er is geen plek meer voor ons in het Midden-Oosten.’
Zijn tienerdochter die moet trouwen met een IS-strijder, zijn vrouw die gedwongen wordt zich te bekeren tot de islam of zijn zoons die in de beruchte kindertrainingskampen terechtkomen. Het zijn slechts enkele beelden die door Najms hoofd schoten toen hij in augustus in een sneltreinvaart vanuit de omgeving van Mosul naar Noord-Irak reed. Kleding, foto’s en andere persoonlijke bezittingen werden Continue reading ‘Christenen zijn nergens meer veilig’

Deel 1: Vrouwen in het kalifaat ‘Mama, ik ga’

Publicatie: De Groene Amsterdammer

Naar schatting 35 tot 50 jonge Nederlandse vrouwen zijn vertrokken naar het kalifaat van Islamitische Staat. Moeder Monique vond vorige week dochter Aïcha terug aan de Turks-Syrische grens. ‘Ik had niet verwacht dat ze nog zou leven.’ 

MONIQUE LEEFDE maanden op sigaretten en koffie. Slapen lukte amper, hooguit een paar uur per nacht. En als ze eenmaal sliep, hoorde ze haar roepen: ‘Mama, doe eens open.’ Maar haar negentienjarige dochter Aïcha (de naam die ze na haar bekering aannam) stond nooit voor de deur. Die woonde in Raqqa of Al Bab, Syrische steden die overgenomen zijn door islamitische militanten. Tenminste, dat vermoedde Monique, want van de ene op de andere dag werd Aïcha’s telefoon niet meer beantwoord en bleven de dagelijkse updates op Facebook achterwege. Continue reading Deel 1: Vrouwen in het kalifaat ‘Mama, ik ga’

European women convert, join IS

Publication: Al Monitor

AMSTERDAM, Netherlands — Vanessa, 19, was always a rebellious and spontaneous teen. Someone who liked being the center of attention and didn’t let anybody tell her what to do. After she became a teenager, she was always hanging around “tough boys” from school. They made her feel protected and safe. And just like other teens, she had boyfriends: Some were really nice, but others treated her badly.

“And when she had a nice boyfriend, she started calling him constantly, testing his limits. On the one hand she denounced rules. Continue reading European women convert, join IS

Het leven zoals het is: Islamitische Staat

Publicatie: De Tijd

Zweepslagen als vrouwen hun niqaab niet goed dragen, kinderen die geleerd worden poppen te onthoofden, nooit meer poëzie of kunst op school. Dit is het leven onder Islamitische Staat.

Wie een indruk wil krijgen van hoe Islamitische Staat (IS) zijn staat in Syrië en Irak inricht, kan Raqqa – in het noorden van Syrië – als voorbeeld nemen. Sinds strijders van de terreurgroep de hoofdstad van het zelfuitgeroepen kalifaat in juni 2013 overnamen, zijn er islamitische rechtbanken, een shariapolitie (hisbah) en een islamitische politie. ‘De sharia-agenten letten op kleine Continue reading Het leven zoals het is: Islamitische Staat

La vraie vie dans l’État islamique

Publication: “L’Echo”

Têtes tranchées exposées sur la place publique, femmes fouettées parce qu’elles ne portent pas le niqab selon les règles, enfants qui s’entraînent à décapiter la tête de leurs poupées, et dans les écoles, suppression de toute référence à la poésie et à l’art. C’est le quotidien des habitants de l’État islamique.

La ville de Raqqa, conquise en juin 2013 par les combattants du groupe terroriste et capitale du califat autoproclamé, est la meilleure illustration de la manière dont l’État islamique (EI) met en place sa structure étatique en Syrie et en Irak. Continue reading La vraie vie dans l’État islamique

European women in the caliphate

Publication; Middle East Eye

Young European Muslim women who feel there is no place for them in society seek to find a world they relate to in IS-controlled areas in Syria.

“Dear daughter, where are you? My heart is aching because I don’t know where you are. Please, if you read this, let me know if you are OK. I love you. Xxx mama.’’

It is one of the countless messages that Anna Smit – not her real name – sent to her daughter. The last time she spoke with Aisha was six months ago during a telephone conversation in late March. The 18-year old Dutch Muslim told her mom that she was happy with her newlywed husband in Idlib, Syria, but that she really missed her. The connection was bad and there was a lot of noise in the background Continue reading European women in the caliphate

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